{"id":10978,"date":"2024-02-10T15:02:26","date_gmt":"2024-02-10T15:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/?p=10978"},"modified":"2025-05-12T14:08:56","modified_gmt":"2025-05-12T14:08:56","slug":"career-decisions-are-internal-majority-decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/career-decisions-are-internal-majority-decisions\/","title":{"rendered":"Career decisions are internal majority decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>Many people find it difficult to make career decisions: \u00abWhich career direction should I pursue?\u00bb \u00abShould I accept the offered position or stay in my current job?\u00bb One of the reasons for this difficulty is the unrealistic assumption that there is only one absolutely correct answer to all these questions.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Peter N\u00e4f<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The idea of one right decision is probably based on the unconscious assumption that we humans are personalities with consistent behaviors, attitudes and characteristics. We constantly recreate this coherent self-image to safeguard our mental hygiene by subsequently rationalizing our emotional decisions. In making decisions, however, this simplified image of ourselves puts us under unnecessary pressure.<\/p>\n<p>When Goethe&#8217;s Faust moaned about the two souls that dwelt in his breast, he was probably understating things.<\/p>\n<h5>We are many<\/h5>\n<p>In reality, we humans tend to be home to a whole group of souls. Friedeman Schulz von Thun created for this the beautiful image of the inner team. He describes our drives, emotions and needs as sub-personalities that make themselves felt in different compositions depending on the topic and demand their rights.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to career decisions, the following sub-personalities could make themselves heard alongside others: The career-conscious one who wants to get ahead as quickly as possible; an internal finance minister who is concerned about securing her existence; the bon vivant for whom a good balance between work and private life is important and who also wants to have fun at work, as well as the strategist who wants to get her career on the right track in the long term. All representatives of reasonable concerns.<\/p>\n<p>Now, the art is to mediate between these inner parts, to lead them to a joint decision and possibly to compensate those who have lost out.<\/p>\n<h5>There is not just one career path<\/h5>\n<p>According to this view, there cannot be one 100% correct decision. All needs and wishes can never be satisfied equally. Instead, you set valid priorities for the moment and give greater weight to certain concerns. In later career decisions, other aspirations will prevail.<\/p>\n<p>In younger years, the career-conscious and the finance minister may win out, which corresponds to the life phase. Whereas in later career phases, the strategist is likely to have a stronger voice and may then be supported by the newly joined health-conscious player.<\/p>\n<p>This inner team set-up with a changing composition also makes sense because not only do your priorities and values change over the course of your life and therefore your career, but also the external circumstances. Economic and social developments require flexible adaptation and diversity within you is just as helpful as it is for real teams in the company.<\/p>\n<p>And don&#8217;t worry: you don&#8217;t suffer from a multiple personality disorder if you hear different inner voices;-)<\/p>\n<p>#<a href=\"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/glossary-coaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">coaching<\/a> #<a href=\"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/glossary-career\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">career<\/a> #<a href=\"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/glossary-outplacement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">outplacement<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many people find it difficult to make career decisions: \u00abWhich career direction should I pursue?\u00bb \u00abShould I accept the offered position or stay in my current job?\u00bb One of the reasons for this difficulty is the unrealistic assumption that there is only one absolutely correct answer to all these questions. Peter N\u00e4f The idea of [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[30,4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Career decisions are internal majority decisions - Karrierecoaching - Peter N\u00e4f<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Career decisions are never 100% decisions, but always an inner negotiation process between different needs.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/karrierecoaching.ch\/en\/career-decisions-are-internal-majority-decisions\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Career decisions are internal majority decisions - 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